Updating is welcome

The major sexual challenge of typical couples is acquiring and applying up-to-date sexual data. When you ask many men how they get along sexually with their wives, you will be shocked to hear majority of them saying, ‘we just did it anyhow.’ Some would say, ‘I pretended I was angry and I just had my way’ or some would say ‘it is fruitless petting a woman for sex; she will misbehave so I just had my way and ignored her.’

Such attitudes are not only awkward and rough, sometimes it could be very painful for the woman who may bleed a little. The memory of careless, semi-forced and painful sex is a time bomb.

How can this be rectified? The answer is get updated. Whenever you feel that your knowledge of getting your spouse in gear for sex is little or limited, then it might be time to brush up on the fine art of sexual facts. This, to a larger extent, averts clumsiness because sex has the potential to be the most profound satisfying and rich part of a marriage union. Sex is a mysterious and sacred act that knits a couple together in ways that are beyond description. A medical study has discovered that married couples who invest sufficient knowledge into sexual activities with a positive attitude have the best, most satisfying sex. They enjoy sex more often and have the highest levels of physical and emotional fulfilment.

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Who says the only time a wife could be swept off her feet should be the night of her wedding? As a matter of fact, clumsy-free sex sweeps any one off his or her feet. Clumsy-free sex allows both spouses to have more opportunities to try new things, make small adjustment, and build towards a state of heightened arousal that rocks from head to toe. Wives, please bear in mind that our men are goal-oriented; they often figure that the faster and harder they work it down there, the more powerful your orgasm will be, which is why it is important for you to set the tone. So from the moment your husband starts kissing you, you should be grasping his hip, caressing his arm, back or sliding your fingers around the nape of his neck. You can bring your man to the brink of paradise and keep him dangling there in blissful suspense until he begs for mercy. Start by caressing his penis carefully, not absentmindedly. Pay attention to how he is responding, give him more of what makes him breathe faster, moan or sigh. If he is circumcised, use a slow, light, up-and-down stroke when his penis is not lubricated.

You can also just trail your fingers up the length of the shaft, and over and around the head. Since most men get erection first thing in the morning, you can set your alarm to 15 minutes before you have to be up, strip down, take his hand in yours, and gently guide it over your body, lingering on your nipples and your clitoris. It is a big way to wake him up and many husbands love women who crave pleasure and take matters into their own hands…literally.

Try pressing and releasing his fingertip against your clitoris several times, then use his finger to make small circles in either direction to hit all of your nerves. It can be soothing when wife goes extra mile to really embrace the penis of her husband. Not only does this allow him to sit back, relax, and enjoy being stimulated, it also means that he can watch you touch him which is erotic and enticing. In addition, it will teach the wife a lot about how to be his ultimate lover. A steady rhythm, a confident grip, and plenty of lubrications will pretty much guarantee his and your pleasure. Steady rhythms prevent clumsiness.

The prostate gland is nicknamed the male G-spot. Slowly slide a lubricated finger around the base of the penis and feel for a fleshy mound that is similar in texture to the woman’s G-spot. It is slightly raised and rippled. Just use your finger for a firm caressing strokes of the prostate for deep and meaningful orgasms. The use of condoms greatly prevents clumsiness and can remove any issue of funny premature ejaculation, because the condom helps the man to momentarily lose sensation which indirectly delays ejaculation. And of course, do not forget the fact that dim light helps to blossom a clumsy-free sex; so keep a reflective light on. Husbands love to watch while their wives experiment with their penis. Close your eyes slightly if you feel self-conscious; from his angle he’ll think you’re gazing adoringly at his penis regardless the size.

Ask your husband to pour lubricant on your breasts and rub it in. Once they are warm and moistened, use them to lubricate his penis. Every wife can be a red-hot lover without being inept. To her husband, just learning the trick of clumsy-free game is the secret. While still giving him love play, sit up and cup your breasts, ask your partner to pour some lubricant oil between them. You can even put on a show and rub it in while he watches or ask him to do it for you, slowly, passionately, seductively, and sensually.